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Does Want To Be A Fool Again

Dear Queenie, my bf of 7yrs. works in banking. he has been fired several times or just gets moved around to different banks. every time he goes to a new branch or bank he get infatuated with a co worker. I have only known him 7 years but before that I think it was the same when he was married.

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Can He Be Trusted?

My boyfriend (28) and I (21) have been together for two and half years. Last week he confessed me that he slept with two women while I was studying abroad for a semester. This happened one year ago, he said he cheated because he was not sure about his feelings towards me back then, but now he says he is very sorry, loves me and wants to be with me forever.

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Dumped By Her Boss

I have been dating my boss who is much older than me for about 3 years now, on and off. He use to be a very big player however when we got together he stopped and was totally in love with me. We built a I guess you could say disfunctional family with our kids.

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He Won't Tell Her What's Wrong

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years now. We've known each other since we were kids. We both married, raised a family, and now both divorced. It was good in the beginning of our relationship, but then all relationships are good in the beginning right? We both have alot in common; music, movies, kids, etc.

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Afraid of Losing Him

I am 20 and been in a relationship for almost two yrs. The problem is that we often argue but for a few weeks I have become unhappy as he no longer wants to get close to me he does not want to kiss or hug me and when I try and talk to him he just gets so cross and closes up, he will avoid eye contact and refuse to talk.

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One Night Stand

My partner had a one night stand behind my back but i didnt ask for this to happen i forgave her. now a couple of years later she done it again my head is gone i cant seem to trust her anytime at all what should i do -- bart

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How Serious Is He?

Hey, how's it going? I came across your website in error this morning by clicking on the wrong thing; however, come to find, I found a wealth of information ~ some very entertaining and some which have provided a lot of insight in the story I wanted to share with you this morning. Here goes.

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Is He Committed Enough?

Dear Queenie, I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months now, we get on well, we don't argue which is great we actually talk!! However I feel that he isn't 100% committed.

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Taken for Granted?

Dear queenie, my boyfriend and i have been seeing each other for almost 5 years, lately though i've started to wonder what it would be like if i was single. we get on very well, have our arguments, but generally get on well.

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He's Confused

Dear Queenie, why do some men say I love you one day and in two days turn around and tell you that they are scared and need time to think? I have such a man.

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Friends With Benefits

Dear Queenie, I met this guy about a year ago and when we met he stated that he wanted to be friends and I was okay with that. A few weeks later he asked if we could be friends who have sex and I said no and held off for a while but then one night it happened and it has been happening every since.

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Time to say goodbye

How do you know when it's time to say goodbye? -- Chloe

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Proposes only when he's drunk

I started dating this guy from work with whom I was very close friends for a couple of years before we dated. He decided he couldn't commit but wanted to stay close friends stating that 'if he had more to give, he would.' He has now moved in with me but we only have occassional sex because it would require a commitment to have it regularly, according to him.

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Dear Queenie: Advice for an Imperfect World Let's face it, if this was a perfect world, I'd be sitting under a beach umbrella, sipping a pina colada, watching buff bods play volleyball. But, this world is far from perfect. So, for now, the beach and buff bods will have to wait. I will, however, sip a pina colada or two as I ponder the best advice for your situation if your love life is in the dumpster.
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