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Obsessing Over His Past

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a while now and never before did his pass bother me. I am his first girlfriend ever. which i know is pretty special u really cant hardly find a man who hasnt been with alot girls now days. but he did sleep with one girl before me. they went on like four dates and after a drunken night they did it it was more her pressuring then him.

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Her Husband's Fantasy

My husband and I were 2 years into our marriage when he said he wanted to share a fantasy with me. Wanting him to be able to come to me and to trust me I opened my mind and begain listening. He told me he wanted to see me with another man.

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Is Porn Cheating?

I am a 31 year old woman that feels neglected. Emotionally and physically. My husband and I have only been married for 2 years. We have no sex life. He is always tired. I can understand that. His job is not the easiest in the world.

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Too Pooped To Pucker

I've been with my boyfriend on and off for seven years now. We haven't broken up in about two years but we do fight when days go by with out seeing each other. He works from 8:30 to 6P and I work from 5:30 to 12 or 1/2 in the morning (I'm a food server) I know that our hours have put a strain on the relationship and my sexual drive.

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Does He Want To Get Married?

Dear Queenie, My boyfriend (23) and I (21) have been dating for eight years now. He is really great; he's affectionate, respects me, my family and my religious beliefs. He even seems to respect the fact that I don't want to have sex until I'm married even though he doesn't agree.

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Youthful Sex

My question is this. I have been married now for many years, 30 years now. My husband and I met when I was 15 and he was 16 years old. We got married when I was just 19 and he was just 20.

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Christians And Sex

Dear Queenie, I was talking to a couple of my x boyfriends, they are now 12 and 16. They told me that they have had sex. They say they are christians, but I believe if they really were christians they wouldn't be having premarital sex.

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1-800 Phone Sex

Dear Queenie, we've been married for three weeks and I just found out he is calling 1-800 sex lines. He doen't know that I know. Is this cheating?

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He's Not Romantic

Dear Queenie, I have been in a relationship for 6yrs. and I have been thinking of leaving him because he is not romantic at all. He says that he isn't like that!

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An Almost Sexless Marriage

My husband and I have been together for 11 years and married for 5 years in a few months. The problem is we hardly every have sex anymore. I talk to him about it all the time in fact probably too much now.

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Too Early for Sex?

I'm asking can my wife have sex after 5 weeks of child birth let me know if it could be done. thank you. -- Mark

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Porn Magazines

I am a recently married young woman (21) to a man (28) I love very much. Things have been a little difficult lately as we are trying to get on our feet financially. Neither of us are working steady jobs but money is okay.

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Friends With Benefits

Dear Queenie, I've recently divorced and engaged in a relationship with a co-worker who's been divorced almost as recently as I have. We got very serious and he said he was serious about us and about our future together, we talked about marriage and children. But suddenly, he grew distant and colder on me. I finally asked why and he said he needed space, he was getting confused and needed time apart.

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Cheating?

Queenie, this may be a tough one, but nobody else can seem to help. I am married and I have been for almost four and a half years. I was dating him for two years before we got married. He used to be addicted to porn and it made our sex life seem non-existant. Many times we talked about it and many times he said he wanted to change it.

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Porn Problem

Dear Queenie, Ive been with my boyfriend for six years and when were at home we argu because he looks at porn and play's porn games that you interact with by moving the mouse around.

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Webcam Antics

In the past i have caught my boyfriend showing his cock on webcam to girls, i forgave him and told him i forgiv him, and we made a deal for him to be less flirty and quit with the webcam, and for me to be less susbishous of him.

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Not Enough Sex

Dear Queenie, I just celebrated my one year anniversary with my girlfriend. We get along just great - we don't really argue or fight. We are very considerate of each other's feelings. To get to the point... in my opinion, we don't have sex as often as i would like.

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Dear Queenie: Advice for an Imperfect World Let's face it, if this was a perfect world, I'd be sitting under a beach umbrella, sipping a pina colada, watching buff bods play volleyball. But, this world is far from perfect. So, for now, the beach and buff bods will have to wait. I will, however, sip a pina colada or two as I ponder the best advice for your situation if your love life is in the dumpster.
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Wanting him to be able to come to me and to trust me I opened my mind and begain listening. He told me he wanted to see me with another man. Continue reading "Her Husband's Fantasy" Is Porn Cheating? I am a 31 year old woman that feels neglected. Emotionally and physically. My husband and I have only been married for 2 years. We have no sex life. He is always tired. I can understand that. His job is not the easiest in the world. Continue reading "Is Porn Cheating?" Too Pooped To Pucker I've been with my boyfriend on and off for seven years now. We haven't broken up in about two years but we do fight when days go by with out seeing each other. He works from 8:30 to 6P and I work from 5:30 to 12 or 1/2 in the morning (I'm a food server) I know that our hours have put a strain on the relationship and my sexual drive. Continue reading "Too Pooped To Pucker" Does He Want To Get Married? Dear Queenie, My boyfriend (23) and I (21) have been dating for eight years now. He is really great; he's affectionate, respects me, my family and my religious beliefs. He even seems to respect the fact that I don't want to have sex until I'm married even though he doesn't agree. Continue reading "Does He Want To Get Married?" Youthful Sex My question is this. I have been married now for many years, 30 years now. My husband and I met when I was 15 and he was 16 years old. We got married when I was just 19 and he was just 20. Continue reading "Youthful Sex" Christians And Sex Dear Queenie, I was talking to a couple of my x boyfriends, they are now 12 and 16. They told me that they have had sex. They say they are christians, but I believe if they really were christians they wouldn't be having premarital sex. Continue reading "Christians And Sex" 1-800 Phone Sex Dear Queenie, we've been married for three weeks and I just found out he is calling 1-800 sex lines. He doen't know that I know. Is this cheating? Continue reading "1-800 Phone Sex" He's Not Romantic Dear Queenie, I have been in a relationship for 6yrs. and I have been thinking of leaving him because he is not romantic at all. He says that he isn't like that! Continue reading "He's Not Romantic" An Almost Sexless Marriage My husband and I have been together for 11 years and married for 5 years in a few months. The problem is we hardly every have sex anymore. I talk to him about it all the time in fact probably too much now. Continue reading "An Almost Sexless Marriage" Too Early for Sex? I'm asking can my wife have sex after 5 weeks of child birth let me know if it could be done. thank you. -- Mark Continue reading "Too Early for Sex?" Porn Magazines I am a recently married young woman (21) to a man (28) I love very much. Things have been a little difficult lately as we are trying to get on our feet financially. Neither of us are working steady jobs but money is okay. Continue reading "Porn Magazines" Friends With Benefits Dear Queenie, I've recently divorced and engaged in a relationship with a co-worker who's been divorced almost as recently as I have. We got very serious and he said he was serious about us and about our future together, we talked about marriage and children. But suddenly, he grew distant and colder on me. I finally asked why and he said he needed space, he was getting confused and needed time apart. Continue reading "Friends With Benefits" Cheating? Queenie, this may be a tough one, but nobody else can seem to help. I am married and I have been for almost four and a half years. I was dating him for two years before we got married. He used to be addicted to porn and it made our sex life seem non-existant. Many times we talked about it and many times he said he wanted to change it. Continue reading "Cheating?" Porn Problem Dear Queenie, Ive been with my boyfriend for six years and when were at home we argu because he looks at porn and play's porn games that you interact with by moving the mouse around. Continue reading "Porn Problem" Webcam Antics In the past i have caught my boyfriend showing his cock on webcam to girls, i forgave him and told him i forgiv him, and we made a deal for him to be less flirty and quit with the webcam, and for me to be less susbishous of him. Continue reading "Webcam Antics" Not Enough Sex Dear Queenie, I just celebrated my one year anniversary with my girlfriend. We get along just great - we don't really argue or fight. We are very considerate of each other's feelings. To get to the point... in my opinion, we don't have sex as often as i would like. Continue reading "Not Enough Sex"