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Can This Relationship Be More?

A long time ago I had a good friend. We'll call him "Chris". He's a great guy and always was. We were really close and there was always something more there but, well I guess we were both afraid of ruining a good friendship and never acted on it. And it was probably the smart thing to do because we were pretty young then.

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She Didn't Know How She Felt

I've fallen in love with my best friend. We met through my brother about two years ago, and started to work together about a year ago. We'd been hanging out ever since we met but it became more frequent after we started working together. He would ask me to his house to hang out.

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He's Found His Soul Mate

Queenie, I am insane about a girl and I have never been like this before. I'm 28, good looking and have always been "in tune" with women's feelings, but this one has me over the barrel.

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Can These Friends Be Lovers?

A close male friend of mine who i think is the most gorgeous man in the world (have harboured a secret admiration/crush on him for quite a few years, although we were both in long term relationships and maintained a good freindship) has told me that he is interested.

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Can Their Friendship Turn Into More?

I have had a best friend for 10 years. We are both divorced. She is straight and I am not. (both female) She has dated a few men over the years. I have not dated much. We talk on the phone everyday and hang out together on the weekends. I think I have deeper feelings for her than she has for me. I don't know if she represses her feelings.

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Friends Or Lovers?

I've shared a special friendship with a man for 5 years now. We see life through the same eyes, and complete each other's thoughts. We were both hurt in the past and terrified of commitment, but yet it seems special.

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Dear Queenie: Advice for an Imperfect World Let's face it, if this was a perfect world, I'd be sitting under a beach umbrella, sipping a pina colada, watching buff bods play volleyball. But, this world is far from perfect. So, for now, the beach and buff bods will have to wait. I will, however, sip a pina colada or two as I ponder the best advice for your situation if your love life is in the dumpster.
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