Dear Queenie: Advice for an Imperfect World: Her Husband And His Girlfriend

Her Husband And His Girlfriend

My boyfriend of 8 years and husband of two years, has decided to leave me pregnant for his girlfriend. She has already moved in our home and now he issists he wants to go to birthing classes and be there for the birth of our child.

I really love this man and can't understand why he is doing this to me. Should I just write him off and deal with him when the baby is here? Or do l let this man break my heart over and over again? -- Beth
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Beth, you ask and answer your own question. How much do you respect yourself? It's obvious he doesn't love you as much as you love him and maybe he never will.

Is this the life you want for yourself and your child? You know what to do. -- Queenie

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