Dear Queenie: Advice for an Imperfect World: Broken Vows

Broken Vows

My husband and I have been married almost two years. He cheated on me so I cheated on him to feel I had some sort of revenge.

We moved to a new state to start over and the other day I caught him on an web site that was title to find a new girl-friend. This isn't nearly as bad as what has happened before, but what should I do? -- Nashira
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Nashira, it sounds like neither of you is too serious about the vows you took two years ago. Do you want to be married? Does he? Do either of you understand what commitment means?

Marriage is between two people -- not three or four or some other number. Couples counseling might be a good start. -- Queenie

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Dear Queenie: Advice for an Imperfect World Let's face it, if this was a perfect world, I'd be sitting under a beach umbrella, sipping a pina colada, watching buff bods play volleyball. But, this world is far from perfect. So, for now, the beach and buff bods will have to wait. I will, however, sip a pina colada or two as I ponder the best advice for your situation if your love life is in the dumpster.
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