Dear Queenie: Advice for an Imperfect World: She's Fallen Out of Lust

She's Fallen Out of Lust

I have fallen out of lust with my husband of 16 years, and know find myself thinking about a male friend who is a lot slimmer and more attractive than my husband. I am finding it very hard to rekindle any sort of sexual feelings for my husband now. What can I do? -- Flo

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Flo, what about your marriage vows don't you understand? I haven't heard of any that state "until you become fat and unattractive" or "until the lust is gone". If you don't find your husband attractive no doubt there are plenty of women who would or do. Think about it. -- Queenie

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Dear Queenie: Advice for an Imperfect World Let's face it, if this was a perfect world, I'd be sitting under a beach umbrella, sipping a pina colada, watching buff bods play volleyball. But, this world is far from perfect. So, for now, the beach and buff bods will have to wait. I will, however, sip a pina colada or two as I ponder the best advice for your situation if your love life is in the dumpster.
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