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Date Like a Model, Even if You're Not One

Dr. Neder; I was just dropping by to ask a serious question about how to attract a very beautiful woman. I live in San Diego and there are a lot of beautiful women here, but I am very shy and there are times where I see women that are out of my league and wonder if just maybe? I was just wondering if there is something I could do to make them notice me and find me attractive even though I may not have model looks.

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My Neighbor's Hot - And She Knows It!

Hey Doc: I've had a few girlfriends in the past and have no problems with experience. I don't think I'm God's gift to women, but I'm not particularly ugly either.

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The Test

Whew! The first date was tough. The second was easier - and more fun. The third found you in bed with her. Somehow after 3 more dates, you two are a couple. Now, something has come up that directly affects or might even prevent your relationship from moving forward - what do you do?

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Why Are Beautiful Women Crazy?

Let's face it - sometimes we men think ALL women are crazy! The fact is - everyone is crazy sometimes. Yes - even you (maybe ESPECIALLY you - you be the judge). That is, everyone does things that others perceive as crazy. Many women seem to be particularly prone to acts of craziness. Beautiful women are even more so.

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Dating Two (or More) Women

With all the hassles, why would someone want to date more than one woman? Frankly, there are as many answers to this question as there are men! However, some very good reasons are as follows:

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Confidence - How to Show It - Even If You Don't Have It

Many of the women I talk to say the same thing: of all the things they find attractive in a man, confidence is #1. The wise man will understand this and use it to his advantage. If you're going to have any level of success with women, you're going to have to be confident, or learn to fake it. This article will explore men's confidence - what it is, how it appears and how to fake it.

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Overcoming Rejection - Handling Objections

Those of you that have read my articles know that I talk a lot about selling skills. That's because I view dating much like selling. For example:

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MEN: Learn How To Be Approached

Recently, I've been getting more mail from women complaining that men are sometimes put off when women approach them. How ludicrous is this? Men, you've had to do all the work for years. If some women feel good enough about themselves to take on some of the burden - why turn them down?

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Getting Over Social Phobia

Dr.: I don't normally comment on sites, but I need to say that your tips on dating, and relationships is the best I've seen so far. It sounds like a good combination of Psychology and common sense.

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Work Your Assets - Not Your Liabilities

Dear Dr. Neder, first of all, I really love what you're doing to help other guys. Thank you! I need some advice on getting dates with Caucasian women because I'm an Asian guy - it's so challenging!

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The Magic Of The Approach

Have you ever seen a magician at a party walking around doing close-up magic? Everyone seems fascinated by it - even if the magician isn't that good. There are probably just as many people hoping the performer will flop as those that are fascinated by it.

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Why It's So Hard To Not Be A 'Nice Guy'

Oh, how easy it is for us to slip into "nice guy" mode! We have a natural tendency to want to be nice guys and even believe that this is exactly what women want from us. As you probably know, it's not. Then, why do we do this?

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Relationship Advice by Dennis W. Neder, DM Dennis W. Neder, DM, ("Dr. Dennis"), is a top relationship, dating, and sex expert who has been seen and heard on hundreds of radio, TV, magazine, and Internet sources. He holds a Doctor of Metaphysics degree and is the author of two books for men.
Topics Baggage Can This Relationship Work? Cheaters Dating Etiquette Dysfunctional Relationships Endings For The Gals For The Guys Needing Commitment Sex Stay Or Go? Taking The Plunge The Dating Game Trust Go to Home FRIENDS & Lovers	Date Like a Model, Even if You're Not One Dr. Neder; I was just dropping by to ask a serious question about how to attract a very beautiful woman. I live in San Diego and there are a lot of beautiful women here, but I am very shy and there are times where I see women that are out of my league and wonder if just maybe? I was just wondering if there is something I could do to make them notice me and find me attractive even though I may not have model looks. Continue reading "Date Like a Model, Even if You're Not One" My Neighbor's Hot - And She Knows It! Hey Doc: I've had a few girlfriends in the past and have no problems with experience. I don't think I'm God's gift to women, but I'm not particularly ugly either. Continue reading "My Neighbor's Hot - And She Knows It!" The Test Whew! The first date was tough. The second was easier - and more fun. The third found you in bed with her. Somehow after 3 more dates, you two are a couple. Now, something has come up that directly affects or might even prevent your relationship from moving forward - what do you do? Continue reading "The Test" Why Are Beautiful Women Crazy? Let's face it - sometimes we men think ALL women are crazy! The fact is - everyone is crazy sometimes. Yes - even you (maybe ESPECIALLY you - you be the judge). That is, everyone does things that others perceive as crazy. Many women seem to be particularly prone to acts of craziness. Beautiful women are even more so. Continue reading "Why Are Beautiful Women Crazy?" Dating Two (or More) Women With all the hassles, why would someone want to date more than one woman? Frankly, there are as many answers to this question as there are men! However, some very good reasons are as follows: Continue reading "Dating Two (or More) Women" Confidence - How to Show It - Even If You Don't Have It Many of the women I talk to say the same thing: of all the things they find attractive in a man, confidence is #1. The wise man will understand this and use it to his advantage. If you're going to have any level of success with women, you're going to have to be confident, or learn to fake it. This article will explore men's confidence - what it is, how it appears and how to fake it. Continue reading "Confidence - How to Show It - Even If You Don't Have It" Overcoming Rejection - Handling Objections Those of you that have read my articles know that I talk a lot about selling skills. That's because I view dating much like selling. For example: Continue reading "Overcoming Rejection - Handling Objections" MEN: Learn How To Be Approached Recently, I've been getting more mail from women complaining that men are sometimes put off when women approach them. How ludicrous is this? Men, you've had to do all the work for years. If some women feel good enough about themselves to take on some of the burden - why turn them down? Continue reading "MEN: Learn How To Be Approached" Getting Over Social Phobia Dr.: I don't normally comment on sites, but I need to say that your tips on dating, and relationships is the best I've seen so far. It sounds like a good combination of Psychology and common sense. Continue reading "Getting Over Social Phobia" Work Your Assets - Not Your Liabilities Dear Dr. Neder, first of all, I really love what you're doing to help other guys. Thank you! I need some advice on getting dates with Caucasian women because I'm an Asian guy - it's so challenging! Continue reading "Work Your Assets - Not Your Liabilities" The Magic Of The Approach Have you ever seen a magician at a party walking around doing close-up magic? Everyone seems fascinated by it - even if the magician isn't that good. There are probably just as many people hoping the performer will flop as those that are fascinated by it. Continue reading "The Magic Of The Approach" Why It's So Hard To Not Be A 'Nice Guy' Oh, how easy it is for us to slip into "nice guy" mode! We have a natural tendency to want to be nice guys and even believe that this is exactly what women want from us. As you probably know, it's not. Then, why do we do this? Continue reading "Why It's So Hard To Not Be A 'Nice Guy'"