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Girls: Learn How To Say "Yes"!

Hello Dr. Neder: This guy in my class has been flirting with me all semester. When he first approached me I was reading on the grass. He introduced himself to me, mentioned that we were in class together and sat down and started talking to me. Some small talk (mostly him asking questions about myself) was followed by him inviting me to join him for coffee in the student center, but I declined because I didn't know him that well nor did I know whether or not I liked him.

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How Women Can Approach Men

Aloha Dr. Neder: I just read your article, "Men: Learn how to be Approached" and found very it to be very enlighten. I would appreciate your advice on this subject: What should I do after I give all the right signals to approach me and he still doesn't make a move?

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It Takes Two

Doctor, I was browsing your website and noticed that you answer email questions, so I was wondering if you could help me. I am 18 years old and my boyfriend is 20. We have been together for 2 years. We have had our arguments and tiffs, but always talked things through. He calls me everyday to chat.

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Do Men Respect Women?

Dear Dennis: I wonder about this from time to time, but I figure that I need an answer from an insightful man in order to get a truthful answer on this: Do men respect women in general? Do men pity women in general, because of our vulnerabilities? Or do men have a certain "hard-to-explain" admiration for women at times and pity other times?

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Why Can't I Meet Someone That's Available?

Hello Dr. Neder: HELP! Oh yes, a word you probably see all the time. But surely there is no plain and simple way to understand men or even women for that matter.

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How Do I Know?

Hello, I recently got back into the dating scene, and have met interesting people. One guy in particular caught my attention. The problem is that during the first month we would speak constantly and had great chemistry. Neither of us made any plans to go out, because we wanted to take it slow. When we finally made plans something always came up on either part.

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