Relationship Advice by Dennis W. Neder, DM: Dysfunctional Relationships Archives

What's Her Problem?

I met this girl online about 6 weeks ago and we clicked right away. We talked via the phone and internet for hours at a time almost every night. We even had live video sessions with each other so when she moved back into the area we met up face to face and she seemed to be interested in me. She even kissed me pretty heavily and told me to call her. So everything was going good - or so I thought.

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Talk is Cheap - Learn to Do It Right!

Dear Dr. Neder, I saw your articles on the Internet and was hoping that you would give me some advice. My ex-boyfriend broke up with me almost five months ago. He and I were friends for a few years before we dated, and we dated for about 11 months. What bothered him most (as far as he would tell) was that he felt that we didn't have "connections." He wanted us to "see eye to eye" and "be on the same page," and yet as much as we tried, we always ended up misunderstanding each other.

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Creating A Void To Be Filled

Dear Sir, I have a huge problem with my girlfriend. I really like her, but I don't feel love. I am afraid that, at age 25 I will never be in love again unless I brake up with her.

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Learning To Be A Man

Doctor: I've made a mistake and need help. You see, I've been with this girl for three months and she is totally into me, but I've grown tired of her. I have already cheated on her 3 times and I want to find a new girlfriend.

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At a Loss For Being Selfish

Hello, I'm having some trouble here and would appreciate any advice you have. I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years now, he is my first and only boyfriend, and I am his first and only girlfriend.

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Break-Up Fake-Out, Or Move Out Without The Lout?

Dear Dr. Neder, I was reading your article on 10 Signs Its Time to Break Up, so I decided to write. I just broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years (on and off) for various reasons. I broke up with him 2 weeks ago, and now I feel like I made a big mistake.

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Knowledge IS Power - When You Have It!

Dr. Neder, I feel like I'm in a nose-dive trying to pull the nose of the plane up. In reality, I think it already crashed but I'm denying it.

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Relationship Advice by Dennis W. Neder, DM Dennis W. Neder, DM, ("Dr. Dennis"), is a top relationship, dating, and sex expert who has been seen and heard on hundreds of radio, TV, magazine, and Internet sources. He holds a Doctor of Metaphysics degree and is the author of two books for men.
Topics Baggage Can This Relationship Work? Cheaters Dating Etiquette Dysfunctional Relationships Endings For The Gals For The Guys Needing Commitment Sex Stay Or Go? Taking The Plunge The Dating Game Trust Go to Home FRIENDS & Lovers	What's Her Problem? I met this girl online about 6 weeks ago and we clicked right away. We talked via the phone and internet for hours at a time almost every night. We even had live video sessions with each other so when she moved back into the area we met up face to face and she seemed to be interested in me. She even kissed me pretty heavily and told me to call her. So everything was going good - or so I thought. Continue reading "What's Her Problem?" Talk is Cheap - Learn to Do It Right! Dear Dr. Neder, I saw your articles on the Internet and was hoping that you would give me some advice. My ex-boyfriend broke up with me almost five months ago. He and I were friends for a few years before we dated, and we dated for about 11 months. What bothered him most (as far as he would tell) was that he felt that we didn't have "connections." He wanted us to "see eye to eye" and "be on the same page," and yet as much as we tried, we always ended up misunderstanding each other. Continue reading "Talk is Cheap - Learn to Do It Right!" Creating A Void To Be Filled Dear Sir, I have a huge problem with my girlfriend. I really like her, but I don't feel love. I am afraid that, at age 25 I will never be in love again unless I brake up with her. Continue reading "Creating A Void To Be Filled" Learning To Be A Man Doctor: I've made a mistake and need help. You see, I've been with this girl for three months and she is totally into me, but I've grown tired of her. I have already cheated on her 3 times and I want to find a new girlfriend. Continue reading "Learning To Be A Man" At a Loss For Being Selfish Hello, I'm having some trouble here and would appreciate any advice you have. I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years now, he is my first and only boyfriend, and I am his first and only girlfriend. Continue reading "At a Loss For Being Selfish" Break-Up Fake-Out, Or Move Out Without The Lout? Dear Dr. Neder, I was reading your article on 10 Signs Its Time to Break Up, so I decided to write. I just broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years (on and off) for various reasons. I broke up with him 2 weeks ago, and now I feel like I made a big mistake. Continue reading "Break-Up Fake-Out, Or Move Out Without The Lout?" Knowledge IS Power - When You Have It! Dr. Neder, I feel like I'm in a nose-dive trying to pull the nose of the plane up. In reality, I think it already crashed but I'm denying it. Continue reading "Knowledge IS Power - When You Have It!"